We guys have all probably had a date or even girlfriend who was good at faking it or good at just lying. Some of us have even had fantastic liars as fantastic lovers. And some of us have been gullible enough to marry these scheming, designing, trajically attractive women.
I have two friends ,over 50, who have married much younger ,and much more attractive , Asian women. They thought they were madly in love and had the house, savings, cars, and good high paying jobs to show they thought they were life experienced and successful.
Now these men are MISERABLE. No affection, certainly not p.d.a.s , and both their wives have them by the pocketbook. These women have short hot tempers and are no fun to live with,,,imagine?
My one big mistake was with a young French woman, tall blonde young and beautiful, who conned or convinced me that she was madly in love with me, wanted to live just in the usa, and did not mind my $40k per year salary in very expensive California. Boy, did she play me!!
I met her on vacation here, with her mother. Then i visited her there in France for weeks and even at "their large new house" in the hills just outside Nice, where i met her "father" and successful "sister, brother-in-law, and their son".
Only problem was was that all that was a lie,,,the house was borrowed for this frame job, as was the man,woman and their child. So i ,sucker, proposed and flew her from Nice to SF and then to Hawaii with all my friends and relatives to get married on the beach.
It was our wedding night, after the service, after sex,,, when she told me she "could not go through with it", it was all a lie, just to get my American citizenship, money and alimony and child support for the next 18 years when she went back to France. I told the family the next morning but they could not believe their ears,,,and still do not!, the fantasy she created was that enticing.
We flew back to SF and she went on to LA, and secret friends she never told me about. It took a great deal of convincing by my family and friends to get her to have an abortion, before she left for France. And, TG, i have never heard from her again. Other than to sign the divorce papers!!
Men, you have been warned!! I only lost about $10,000, and some pride. Another friend married a beautiful woman with 2 kids from a previous marriage, thinking or feeling he was again lucky and totally madly in love with a very beautiful vivaceous smart woman. After 2 more kids and what looked like to me and all his close family as a very happy 6 years of marriage, she left COLD one day, right after he got a huge huge raise, a new big 2 story house to replace the old small average 3br they had, and new expensive luxury car. She cleaned him out,,,and totally broke his heart. He was in therapy for years. And is still,,,still,,,paying alimony and child support ,for his 2 kids he seldom sees because the sick courts gave her primary custody when he was so devastated,,,by her.
His brother thinks she planned this from day one,,,Imagine how sick a woman must be to cause that much pain in so many lives for so many years?
